Can you help!
My best friend in the entire world is a former co-worker. For the record we have not slept together or even kissed other than a hug and kiss on the cheek when I quit working there. Yes, we are both married- not to each other! She is simply the most interesting, fun, bright and incredible woman I've ever met. During a long talk about my sexual frustrations with my wife, she revealed to me that she has never had an orgasm, that her husband cums to soon (but the problem is bigger than that- she never achieved orgasm with previous partners either), and that she has lost most interest in sex because of it. She is quite good looking, but is hot beyond hot because of her personality and passion for everything she does. It kills me to think she's not experiencing orgasms and missing so much. I have the same problem- I take so long to cum that my wife always climaxes before me- promises to take care of me next time, but never does.
If I ever could be alone with her what could I do to relax her enough, pamper her enough, make her feel like a queen, and help her achieve an orgasm. She is the greatest woman on earth - she deserves more. (can you tell I'm somewhat taken by her)
thanks~

Do
you have any particularly titillating, tantalizing
or terrifying female orgasm stories to share
with us and our readers? Have you encountered
issues concerning the female orgasm or sex,
and wish to enlighten others who may be experiencing
the same kind of problems? 



6 Comments:
This post has been removed by a blog administrator.
Have you tried fantasizing about this "friend" of yours? Some times, when I have trouble cumming, I fantasize about other women; the woman at the bank, a school teacher, my wife's sister (hee hee don't tell her). It's not cheating and and if your relationship is open enough, you can ask your wife to pretend she's someone else. Mine won't pretend to be someone else, but she doesn't mind my fantasizing, as long as it stays in my mind.
As you can tell I think the world of her and yes have fantasized about her- and told even her! I trust her with every secret in my life- I just won't wreck tow families to try to have too much more :(
I am a 43 year old woman who had maybe 2 orgasms throughout a 20 year marriage. He tried, sometimes too hard, I couldn't relax.
We women need to be more comfortable and familiar with our own bodies in order to realize our potential for orgasm. I started exploring my own body, learning what I liked (on my own... and with a little help from a friend)... long distance. I can do it alone or with the help of a little battery operated buzz.
Your friend needs to explore her own body, find out what feels good. An orgasm is a gift that she needs to give herself... not a gift that is given by someone else.
The personal comfort and exploring idea is good advice.... but it's a many year dream and fantasy of mine to help her.... a gift I want to give her sooooo badly. Off limits I know- but I'm nutz about her! Maybe it's the 'forbidden fruit' thing, but I am so confident I could help her 'succeed.' Still, I'd be happiest if she were to succeed whether I played a role or not- I just want her to feel fullfilled- she is so incredible. Ultimately her happiness comes before my own!
Go get her.. nutin like it
Post a Comment
<< Home