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you have any particularly titillating, tantalizing
or terrifying female orgasm stories to share
with us and our readers? Have you encountered
issues concerning the female orgasm or sex,
and wish to enlighten others who may be experiencing
the same kind of problems? Security is Key
I ran across the Female Orgasm personal stories section and wanted to share mine, particularly as I am a woman who has experienced difficulty achieving orgasms in the past.
I am soon to be 30 years old and have had an active sex life since I was 18. In those twelve years, I never knew how deep a connection I could make with a partner. Basically, I was going through the motions. I enjoyed sex, but I rarely (if ever) achieved orgasm through intercourse. As for oral, I did not even know to anticipate orgasm until I'd done it for a couple years. It's like I was in an orgasmic fog! I would engage in sexual activity but not expect or achieve orgasm. The first time was from oral, and it was excellent. From there, orgasms came fairly easy with oral stimulation. Intercourse was still a far cry. It would take another 9 years before I was able to regularly achieve orgasms.
In looking back, my previous sexual encounters were with guys for which I had not substantial feelings. I had several short-lived relationships, never been in love. I had a problem with trusting men because of my childhood and issues growing up. In my current relationship, I am with someone who truly loves me and accepts me for me. There is nothing I can't share with him. I never question his love for me, and I know I am emotionally secure with him. In this environment, I am able to relax and go with the flow. I don't focus on having an orgasm. I just enjoy us being together, and nine times out of ten, it happens!
To make a long story short (too late!), I now believe a woman must feel positively secure in her relationship to "lose control" and experience orgasm. She also must relax and not TRY but pay attention to how her body feels. If it feels good, go with it for a while. If not, switch it up! Just have fun and enjoy sharing the intimate moments with your special partner.
Good luck!
TJ
posted by Candis Hale @ 1:45 PM
2 Comments:
i was 13 yrs old when i discoverd that tingle feeling inside when i would secrely masturbate my self at night and i loved it i did it every night after that love to all a good masturbator
I am a 50 year old male-who has learned the secret to providing a great orgasm almost everytime- unfortuantely she comes so early that I don't, but that's another story. I start making love 24 hours before- cleaning the house, preparing meals- arranging my kid's stuff including home work so my partner is well rested and relaxed when we get into bed. Also, I am a massage master- taking great pride in my work. often my masages lead to orgasm. Lastly I am an oral sex master. I keep my eyes and ears open as I give her oral sex....I listen for every little sound (was it good or not so good) and repeat the good. I watch her stomach rise and fall and watch for stomach muscles tensioning-...why?... did I do something right ot wrong...again I make note of the good and do not repeat the not so good. I feel every quiver, shudder, I listen for every breath, moan, and groan. I'm okay looking at best- but I work so hard. Further, I always shower first, shave very cleanly, brush my teath, pre-warm or pre-cool the room (depending on season) light candles including one scented, I work hard and get results. I trim and sand my nails, I sand my hands- sorry, no callouses during my magic massages. I trim (not shave) but thrim my pubic and chest hair- I use just a hint of a nice cologne. I simply try to present what I have as best as possible and preform like a artist. To be honest, I am incredible- but only because of the work I put into pleasing her.
She orgasms- everytime! She even gets mad because I make her cum before we even get to intercourse. I am also a master at that- I'm average in size- maybe even a bit smaller, but when you put your soul into your preformance ...it shows. I'll be in the missionary position, but up on my hands and toes with nothing touching except my penis. I use little mini strokes that only move the head in and out, maybe 1 1/2" strokes- NO OTHER CONTACT. after a couple minutes of that I go back to full plunges...the results- she cums first...I end up cumming by hand after (my own hands) while she kisses me. I haven't figured out the male O, but I've got the female one nailed- respect, service, dedication, comfort, and care. Comments anyone?
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