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Hi,
My wife and I are both military, so when we see each other, it is an enormous gift. Starting Monday, the 17th, I will get to be with her for 10 days. I want to know any great ways I can please her.
When we have sex, I am one of those guys, that though I cum early, I can usually go on for a long time. So usually, 5 minutes or so into intercourse, I cum. But I stay inside her, and I work, even if it takes me 30 minutes for her to have an orgasm. Of all the times that we have had sex, she told me that only once has she ever "faked" and orgasm, and that is because she was sore and did not want to tell me. Now, She is very new to sex, we have been married 3 months tomorrow, and have been together for about 7 all together. Her Orgasms have, well, been not that strong, now, new feelings to her, yes, but I want her to remember this time together we are going to have.
How can I get her to have an Orgasm to remember and to be looking forward to the next time we see each other in about 2-3 months? I want her to shake whenever she remembers it, and we talk about it over the phone....I want her to lust after it. How can I get her to that point. I am all for pleasing her, and I love to please her, but I want this to be an incredible 10 days for her. Help ASAP would be appreciated. Thanks.
MacGyver
posted by Candis Hale @ 9:02 AM
20 Comments:
My advice to wanting her to remember and look forward to next time is simple. I'm a pilot, and the best way to make someone want to fly again is for them to remember the landing. In otherwords, how you end is critically important. Most guys roll over and die. I'd suggest giving her your best as unselfishly as possible, and then cuddling, tickling her back, massaging, what ever turns her on romantically. Do this AFTER making love.
Foreplay is super important, jys don't neglect the afterplay.
That makes sense. And that is what I usually do. We cuddle after and I rub her back and stuff. I know, some people just get in, get out. I don't do that, because I want her to feel special. And it actually worked this time. Thanks!
try out different things for her to have a new kind of feeling....
1)if u kno try combining vaginal stimulation with clitoral stimulation. it means almost tenfold pleasure for her. its a position where ur penis penetrates and ur body rubs against her clitoris simultaneously and rythmically alongwith each in and out action.
2)u can try the kamasutra book it works wonders trust me.
3)understand and learn about the female erogenous areas(search on net) try working on that.
3)after foreplay start with fingering then start intercourse.
i wish u all the very best!
hope u have a wonderful 10 days!
wishing u well and a gr8 married life!
Thank you. I did try that combination, and it worked out rather well. Also, had her lie on her back on the edge of the bed, with the back of her knees on my shoulders, i guess i was hitting almost every pleasure point with that one.
Please, any other comments would be nice, cause each time i see her, about every 2 months or so, i would love for her to remember.
Thanks again!
Hi,
As a woman, I can share with you the techniques that my boyfriend uses that have resulted in very memorable orgasms for me. Start off slowly kissing her mouth, neck, breasts, stomach, working your way down and feeling free to roam. Go down on her with sweeping movements of your tongue until she orgasms (sounds like you know what she likes already!) Then, climb on top of her and make love to her, letting her know how much you obviously love her. Personally, intercourse after recieving oral pleasure very often resulsts in another orgasm. The added plus is that you don't have to worry about cumming too early because she will likely still be shaking from your performance. Good luck to you and your wife and thank you for your services.
Jo Says,
before letting her climax fully with oral sex, build her up to the point of orgasm and then slow things down. Do this several times until she begs you to let her go all the way and this will result in many multiple orgasms! I gaurantee it. That will certainly make it memorable, good luck and let me know how you get on, thanks.x
hey dude,
u can use these methods:
don't start too fast. have your time, talk to her.. i mean try to be naughty when u r going to do that. touch her body and find when she is shivering.. tell her how much u love her. tell her to message your "that one". ask.. do she like it or how she would like to use it. dont b agressive at first. b gentle. smile at her when u r touching her genital or puffies. bite every part of her body mildly. let her feel the shock. hold her with your firm hand. touch her genital with your hard p****. rub it. if possible lick it. u will see the result. dont b frustated. have your confidence. Then once she will say.. "please! do it.." see u r enough for her.. smile :-)
You should check out 3 minute orgasm, by the Welcomed Concensus. When I did what they told me to do to my girlfriend she jumped up and hugged me and has been bragging to her friends every sense. Focusing my total attention on her and her pleasure and her body was a totally satiffying experience for me and her.
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im young 17/18 my girlfriend and i are completely new weve done it once and it wasnt that memorable for her how can i do it properly because tbh im shit i hardly got it in :l any experience tips?
Ty
Well, when you say "...tbh im shit i hardly got it in ..." do you mean you hardly get it in, and she orgasms, or that you cum? With my wife, I found that stimulating her for a half hour, or even up to an hour with fore play really helps her have better orgasms. I will usually start with a back rub, and then move to tracing my fingers all over her body, lightly kissing her all over.
The biggest thing to do, is find her highly sensitive areas, nipples, ears, etc. And learn to tease those areas, save touching her in those areas for when you want to bring her sensitivities up a notch or 2. Let me know.
If you really want to make things interesting try adding something different? My boyfriend loves it if I surprise him with honey or blindfold play. Just spice things up from time to time and remind her how much you love her even when times can look tough.
Wishing you the best for your future.
My girlfriend went crazy when, during foreplay, I would go between licking the space bewtween her jaw and ear and sucking on her ear while stimulating her cliteris with my fingers and stimulating her breast and nipples with my other hand. Some girls like to hear a bit of moaning from the guy during foreplay, so dont be shy. It helps her also get in the mood and feel comofrotable with vocally expressing her enjoyment. Also, I've found when stimulating the clitoris to climax, one should be fast but not firm (hold back on putting pressure there). If she holds back becuase its getting too intense, be persistent (but never forcefull!). At first my girlfriend shyed away from climaxing becuase she was scared of what would happen. But once exposed to the plesures of orgasm, its all good. So again, be persistent but not forcefull. I can relate to the distance factor so hope this helps!
My Wife and I Are both over 50. We stimultate each other thru our colothing. We give each other mutual oral pleasure. She prefers for Me to Mount her missionary style, so that I can come in her as hard as i can, (5-6 streams).
when She is not well, He sister sometimes provides for me, She Is 8 years older, and will provide me With Mutual Pleasure. thanks
When we were married In Church, Her two sisters said They would provide sexual satisfaction for Me, If My Wife Could Not. this was part of the Pre-Nuptial agreement.
It occurred during the courting process, to determine If My organ was large enough, and my wife's vagina was large enough. thanks to her sisters' It worked Out fine. thanks Be To God
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I didn't read all of these comments... I just have to add that I am a woman and a mistake I made too often was trying to climax during intercourse. Sometimes it's just not going to happen. I would also try not to come before sex so that I could have a better orgasm during sex. I would get really frustrated because I never did. And then someone told me that it makes more sense to enjoy yourself without sex if sex alone isn't cutting it. Women are just as likely to have a second orgasm during sex if they climax before it. I have to say that I don't find the idea of a guy continuing sex after he's come appealing. It would be a better idea if you just took a break and got onboard for round two... It usually takes guys longer to have an orgasm the second round.
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June said...
I noticed wonderful sex came after 5 years of marriage. My husband wll ask me how to excite me and which part of my body is sensitive. He will lick my nipple(very sensitive part) and pussy too. Both of this area makes me wet easily and contraction occur in vagina. Contracting will lead to orgasm, a great intense feeling of excitement and satisfaction. You can try this to your wife too. Size Matters
Hmmm, spend extra long on forplay to get her as excited as possible, then orally stimulate her clit whilst pleasuring her g spot with your fingers seems to be the best way, though entirely selfless.
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