Males perspective

Dear Candis:

I am a 50 year old male-who has learned the secret to providing a great orgasm almost everytime- unfortuantely she comes so early that I don't, but that's another story.

"Honey, I'm home, let's screw," would get me tossed out on my ear. Instead, I start making love 24 hours before we climb into bed- by cleaning the house, preparing meals- arranging my kid's stuff including home work so my wife is well rested and relaxed and not stressed when we get into bed. I am somplimentary and considerate. Also, I am a massage master- taking great pride in my work, one massage lasted 4 hours and often my masages lead to orgasm. Lastly, I am an oral sex master, too. I keep my eyes and ears open as I give her oral sex....I listen for every little sound (was it good or not so good) and repeat the good. I watch her stomach rise and fall and watch for stomach muscles tensioning-...why?... did I do something right or wrong...again I make note of the good and do not repeat the not so good. I feel and interrupt every quiver, shudder, I listen for every breath, moan, and groan. I work to be best for her- there is so much more to oral sex than lapping away at her like a dog in a water bowl!

Frankly, I'm only okay looking at best- but I work so hard sexually. Further, I always shower first, shave very cleanly, brush my teath, pre-warm or pre-cool the room (depending on season) light candles including one scented, I work hard and get results. I trim and sand my nails, I sand my hands- sorry, no callouses during my magic massages. I trim (not shave) but trim my pubic and chest hair- I use just a hint of a nice cologne. I simply try to present what I have as best as possible and preform like a artist. To be honest, I am incredible- but only because of the work I put into pleasing her. She orgasms- everytime! In fact she even gets mad because I make her cum before we even get to intercourse. I am also a master at intercourse. I'm average in size- maybe even a bit smaller, but when you put your soul into your preformance ...it shows. I'll be in the missionary position, but up on my hands and toes with nothing touching except my penis. I use little mini strokes that only move the head in and out, maybe 1 1/2" strokes- NO OTHER CONTACT, after a couple minutes of that I go back to full plunges...the results- she cums first...I end up cumming by hand after (my own hands) while she kisses me. I haven't figured out the male O, but I've got the female one nailed- respect, service, dedication, comfort, attention to detail, little gifts occassionally, hard but pleasuarable work and lots of tender loving care.

Simply, she cums everytime because I am so great- but be clear- I am not bragging, nor am I great because I'm handsome, tall, or hung. I'm great because I react to her wants, hone my skills, practice, practice, and practice, and selflessly work my butt off to please her! I'm great because I put her needs first. Paying attention and consistantly delivering the efforts that brings her to orgasm virtually everytime makes me great!

This may be a female forum, but any comments for helping me cum???? I've about given up! :(