ORAL SEX
I am Es, i just want to share my experience with my husband. He keeps asking me to suck his penis and i bluntly refused as i feel that it is not healthy. But i noticed that he is no longer happy with me on bed.
I think i will like you to teach more about oral sex. How healthy is it? And should we allow them to suck our vagina as well?

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Hi Es,
That is a very good question, yet one that is often overlooked. I can understand why your husband is unhappy with your sex life at the moment. Oral sex is probably the greatest pleasures a man can receive. Likewise, though, the same can be true for a woman. Fellatio and cunnilingus are a natural part of a healthy lifestyle. I have a old motto "try something 3 times before you decide if you like it or not". But of course, if you very uncomfortable with it, then you should not be pressured into it.
I have written a new page about that topic. Check it out http://www.femaleorgasmsecrets.com/fellatio-tips.html. You may want to consider performing fellatio in the bath or immediately following a shower. Who knows? You may find the act pleasing to yourself as well as your husband.
If you dont do it ,he'll find someone who will.
Honestly, I do not believe it is nso bad. It is very pleasureable for him, and not so bad for yourself if you get into it and realize how turned on he is.
Hi there,
I do think it is really healthy to explore your partner and your partner to explore you. I think it's well worth a try, if you don't like it at least you have tried. Personaly i can't think of anything better than pleasuring my partner.
Why don't you look on the internet or buy a book to get some tips or advice.
If you need any advice i'm happy to help lol.
Please email me on jl.henderson@ntlworld.com
Hope this helps
Jay
I am sure this is realy healthy although you must be bot clean. The best advice I can give is to just switch off and go for it. Lose yourself in the moment and keep in tune with your orgasm
i once had the same feeling about my partner.. and he felt that i didnt desire him anymore
but then i realised that i felt he was dirty.. so i didnt want to put his dirty penis in my mouth cause it would taste like piss (men don't wash themselves after going to the restroom)
so in a gentle way i suggested that we both went into the shower and we covered each other in soap and washed using the soap as a lubricant with caresses and when i had drawned all the soapy water, before i dryed him and he dried me, i went down on him
started kinda slow, cause i didnt know what to do
but then things got intresting and i kinda liked it
after that he always asked me to take a shower with him... we stood together for two years after that...
when i licked him off, i would start getting so wet, that he would just penetrate me instantly after a 15 minute long session of sucking
and i must say that now i fantasize with performing oral sex to a guy... it makes me so horny!
but i'm affraid that i need more intimacy for that than what i get in a one night stand.. so i guess i'll hace to wait untill i get into a relationship again
I've been in a very similar situation. He asks, I'm unsure, and our relationship is suffering. I had thought aabout it a lot, but was scared. One night, I was a little tipsy, I decided to give it a shot and it wasn't bad. It was fun how crazy he got. He has been sooooo good since then.
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I will be honest, oral sex is not my favorite thing in the world to perform. It does get the job done though. Depending on the guy, they can be clean or dirty. I think going down on him after a shower is a good idea. If you are not sure you will like it, I have two suggestions. Tell him you will try it, but it is not okay for him to climax during it. If you already have reservations about oral sex, it is not the best idea to have him cum in your mouth. Second: If you decide you want to go for it, don't be timid! (don't hurt him, obviously) The best way to do it is just give it your all... Trust me, when you are making a serious effort, oral sex goes a lot quicker for the guy. Which means you have to spend less time doing something you don't want to do :)
Hello, I love oral sex, I think its a good way to have intimacy with your partner. I like giving and receiving. There is a lot of tabus about it. If its dirty, if its a sin and so on. All I can say, as long as we keep our private zones clean we can do wonders with it. I get really aroused and horney when I do it and when my partner does it to me OMG I go to heaven and came back. i don't have a problem telling him where to kiss or where to lick, its better to gide him so you can enjoy it. And about the smell, a clean vagina has a very nice smell that makes the macho get more horney. So go for it, give him a very good such, don't use teeth please and make him go crazy and of course don't be ashamed of your vulva, just open wide and let him explore everywhere and gide him when you need to. :-)
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jenny said...
Dont belive all this lies about lovely ladies who just love to suck c***s. Its not a healthy or clean thing, only looks good on movies.
Let me share my experience. One of my mates pissed inside my mouth while I was sucking him, its so disgusting and sickening, i just cant tell you clearly. If you dont belive me then try putting your own pee in a glass and drinking it.
Sex is only a dirty action which is worth only for reproduction, nothing else.
These boys are crazy with all the sick fantacies that they learn on the net. Another descent guy who was ass f**king me, discovered that his penis was all covered with smelly shit and never tried that again.
lets put it this way - your mouth is much better protected then your vagina. Also sperm is acctually very good for you teeth, scientists found. there are no adverse effects. there is apsolutely nothing unhealthy about it. and yes, let him please you with his mouth, you will like it alot. yes the pee thing is kinda weird and the ass guy is kinda stupid but look, you dont have to. if you dont want to its entirely your decisiion dont let anyone force you. if you think its discusting thats fair enough
hey i also sometimes wonder how do women feel about oral sex. I got married last nov and lived with my wife only for a month and came back. Hopefully she'll be here by nov and im more prepared to satisfy her even more now. When i was there i never tried recievening an oral from my wife cuz i know she won't do it but i have tried once giving it to her and she definitely loved it. Although, i wonder like some comments above talked about guiding a guy how and where they want to be touched or licked. That made me wonder even more how girls like it. My wife is the kind of women who will never ever guide me, she'll jus let me do it however i do it.
I love giving cunnilingus to clean women even more than sex. The sight, smell and taste of a dripping cunt is the ultimate and in certain positions I can se her face when she is coming.
New Vo is better than Old Vo but Old Vo is better than No Vo.
A male has a place on his penis that if a women know where it is, the male don't need to help her, , most women don't know the spot and the male feels cheated.
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