My wife masturbating alone bothers me
We are both in our early 20's, she has never had an orgasm. I have encouraged her to touch herself and show me what she wants and she has. The problem is she wants to do it alone sometimes and for some reason this really bothers me I have no idea why!

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Well, first let me commend you for asking her what she wants, that is the beginning of the dialog that is needed in a relationship. Have you asked her why she prefers to masturbate alone? She may not feel comfortable touching herself in front of you, which may change over time. For now I would let her do what is necessary for her to be as comfortable as possible. You may notice a change as she gets more comfortable with her own body. Show her a lot of support, love, and patience and her guard should begin to come down slowly. You are probably bothered by it because you feel left out of giving her pleasure, or that you are inadequate, which is a very normal response by the way. You want to engage sexually with her, but she's in a sense, leaving you out of it. As your relationship develops I'm sure these sexual barriers will come down, I think she just needs a little time.
Here’s a little something you may want to try to get you both involved; perform cunniligus on her as she masturbates. That way, she does the masturbating (which she prefers) and you get to help heighten it (which gets you involved). Who knows, you may bring your relationship to a whole new level.
Another thing is I want to have sex all the time and she rarely does even when I try and be romantic and do things to get her in the mood. That's another reason I'm trying to get her to become more sexual and try new things. Do you have any ideas?
Well, now there could be a few reasons for that. First
this is to sit down with her and discuss. Don't lash
out and demand an answer. Could be that she is suffering
from female dysfunction. Here are a few pages you can
read up on that: female
sexual arousal disorder and sexual
therapy. Also one more thing, and you may find this
hurtful, but maybe, just maybe, she's just not that
into you.
When you want her to go suck her breast for 35 min then play with her clit and suck tit until she scream, she will be looking for that forever.
BE PATIENT. it takes a girl longer than a man to get aroused...especially if you want her to orgasm..she must not have had a orgasm yet because if she would have she would want to have sex all the time..cuddle and rub for at least 15 mins.
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