20 Climax Tidbits
Everyone knows that pleasing a woman in bed is unlike pleasing a man
in bed - a totally different ball-game. For anyone wanting to maximize
opportunities for climaxes, whether boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or
wife, it pays to know as much as possible about the female orgasm. Therefore,
here is a collection of 20 tips on the subject of the female climax:
- Only 9% of all women reach orgasm every time they have sex, and
approximately 26% of women have consistent difficulties reaching orgasm.
With these numbers in mind, you need to allot lots of time and attention
on helping your lady friend(s) achieve the big O.
- While men have a tendency to go straight for the genitalia, women
find it easier to reach orgasm if there is much foreplay
prior to actual intercourse. There is something to be said for perseverance.
- During intercourse, engaging in many variable positions typically
interferes with the slow female build-up towards orgasm, so give her
plenty of time in each position. Do not switch around too often.
- Sociology studies have revealed that women are less likely to reach
orgasm at the beginning of a sexual relationship. After many years
with the same partner, it gets easier; the study suggests that female
sexuality benefits from long-term relationships.
- 46% of anorgasmic women believe that their inability to reach orgasm
is related to their negative self-image. Hence, building your woman’s
confidence is key in helping her to climax.
Some
women are predisposed to being anorgasmic because they believe that
sex is bad for their health, more specifically those who have ailments,
i.e. headaches. To the contrary, the female orgasm releases endorphins
in the body, making it an effective painkiller rather than a potential
health hazard.
- Typically, women are not as physically-inclined as men with regard
to sex, and require mental stimulation as well as physical. Thus,
making her think about sex prior to getting down and dirty is important.
- The clitoris is perhaps the most significant body part in facilitating
female orgasm. Its name is Greek for ”little hill” but,
as a matter of fact, the exterior part of this hotspot of nerve endings
is only the tip of the iceberg – it extends up to nine centimeters
into the woman’s groin. Therefore, it can be stimulated from
within a woman’s vagina, usually with good results.
- The clitoris is not the only part of the woman that can produce
intense sensations. Attention to the g-spot can have similar positive
results.
- Anal play can produce pleasure from stimulation of the numerous
nerve endings inside and around the anus.
- Do not forget other female erogenous zones, such as the neck, ear,
etc. There are many of them, and they vary from woman to woman, so
unless your lady is willing to share her secrets with you, the best
way to find them is by trial and error.
- Studies show that the muscle spasms during female orgasm allow
women between 1 and 45 minutes after their partner’s ejaculation
to retain up to 80% of his sperm, while women who climax before their
partner retain less than 50% thereof.
- Women are most likely to reach orgasm on the 14th day of their menstrual
cycles because the female sex drive is at its peak at that time.
Both men and women tend to experience their first sexual climax during
masturbation. Even in later stages of life, this sexual activity is
more conducive to female orgasm because the focus is on self-pleasure.
For this reason, it is a good idea to include masturbation, solo or
assisted, as an alternative to intercourse.
- Alcohol should be avoided or at least consumed moderately by women
who plan on engaging in sexual play. Tipsy women might be more willing
to have sex, but they are less physiologically able to reach orgasm.
- Smell is one of the most active senses to cause sexual desire as
its center is situated close to the reproductive area in the brain.
Musky scents are particularly effective due to their similarity to
testosterone.
- While the right smell can increase the chances of female orgasm,
the wrong one can greatly reduce the likelihood of it happening. Suffice
it to say that personal hygiene is critical.
- Scientific studies have revealed that a woman’s feet are
significantly involved in producing female orgasm. Simply keeping
her feet warm improves her chances of reaching climax by up to 30%.
Feet massage or toe sucking can increase those odds because the sensation
is directed to an area near the brain’s reproductive centre.
Perhaps this is the reason why many women go for men with a feet fetish.
- Due to the brain’s inverted control of the human body, the
left hemisphere of the brain, where sensory input is received, is
better connected to the right half of the body; therefore, meticulous
attention paid to the right side produces more intense sensations,
increasing the likelihood of orgasm.
- Do not be shy to use mechanical aids. Sexual toys such as vibrators
are not only fun, but also effective in making your woman reach an
orgasm, and when combined with your sexual attentions, the sky is
the limit.
Written by Candis Hale
Candis provides online content for the Female
Orgasm Secrets website (www.femaleorgasmsecrets.com).
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