Female Orgasm Secrets

Female Sexual Arousal Disorder

Your girlfriend or wife is stress-free, you have plenty of foreplay and romance, and you’ve tried every position possible, but she simply cannot have an orgasm.

This can be a very troubling and discouraging situation for both people involved. Both the man and woman can feel as though they are sexually inadequate, leading to distress within the relationship.

Female Sexual Arousal Disorder (FSAD) can be categorized by the following symptoms:

• inability to experience orgasm
• inability to produce lubrication
• decreased libido or lack of desire

Having one of these symptoms does not necessarily mean that one has FSAD. A physician should be contacted for diagnosis.

There are both physical and emotional causes of FSAD. Here are some of the known causes:

• lack of affection within relationship
• communication problems
• fatigue and stress
• physical illness likes diabetes or heart disease
• psychological conditions like depression
• relationship lacking emotional intimacy
• restrictive upbringing concerning sex
• negative/traumatic sexual experience

Some FSAD-related illness are:

Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder

This disorder is present when an individual has decreased sexual fantasies and an absent desire for sexual activity. This disorder occurs mostly in adulthood, usually following a period of stress.

Sexual Aversion Disorder

This is a disorder in which the individual actively avoids sexual genital contact. People usually report feelings of anxiety, fear, or disgust when the opportunity for intimacy arrives. In some cases, panic attacks may also occur.

Orgasmic Cephalgia

This condition is otherwise known as a “sexual headache”. This is when a very severe headache starts suddenly around the point of orgasm. The duration of the pain varies from several minutes to several hours. This pain interferes with the individual’s desire and/or eagerness to engage in sexual activity.

Going through FSAD with your partner can be a very stressful and emotionally draining experience. However, with proper treatment, the majority of sexual dysfunctions can be overcome.

The couple’s process of treatment for Female Sexual Arousal Disorder can include:

• undergoing therapy or counseling prior to focusing on enhancing sexual activity
• learning skills in conflict resolution, and working through their differences in non-sexual areas of the relationship first
• reserving weekly talk time or date time without the kids
• learning to detach sex from affection so that neither one is afraid to be affectionate on a daily basis – they must understand that receiving a hug from their partner does not mean that it will lead to sex

It is a slow and gradual process, but with the right amount of love and understanding, problems in sexual arousal and desire can be battled. Usually, circumstances like these tend to bring a couple closer together.