Female Orgasm Secrets

The Male Condom

Practicing safe sex was never so much fun! You can choose from a variety of condoms: extra lubricated, flavored, colors that glow in the dark, and so on. While it can be fun to experiment, keep in mind the condom’s real function which is to prevent pregnancy and guard against the transmission of STI’s (sexually transmitted infections).

Usually made from latex, condoms are a contraceptive device used to cover the penis during intercourse. Do not be afraid to experiment when making a purchase, but make sure you are not buying a novelty item designed solely for amusement purposes. The product you choose must be government approved to ensure protection against regnancy and STI’s.

In today’s society, many women are taking the initiative regarding their sexual health. Women are no longer depending on the man to supply the condom during sex. Many feel reassured by purchasing their own for the best possible protection.

STI’s (formally known as STD's)
The condom is the only contraceptive method that protects against HIV and other STI’s, especially when used in combination with a spermicidal product such as Nonoxynol 9.

Effectiveness
No method of birth control is 100% guaranteed effective, even when used correctly. The condom provides adequate protection, but it is a good idea to have a back up birth control method, just in case. Research indicates the following:

• 2 to 12 women out of 100 will become pregnant when using just a condom
• 1 to 6 women out of 100 will become pregnant when using a condom in combination with a spermicidal product.

Cost
Easy to acquire, condoms can be purchased in drug stores, major stores and vending machines for about $5 to $18 for a package of 12. They can also be purchased individually and are distributed for free by some organizations.

Defective Products
Always check the expiry date before using a product. Do not use a condom that has been exposed to excessive heat, light, or friction. Friction results from the wear and tear of being carried in a back pocket or wallet for some time. If you suspect that the product may be damaged, open it as you normally would before intercourse and run your finger over it to see if the latex has a sticky or dry feel to it. If it does, discard it! Choose one that is in good condition, or opt for another method of birth control.

How to Use a Condom

• Very carefully open the package at the corner, taking care not to tear into its contents.
• Roll the condom down and over the tip of the erect penis.
• Lightly pinch the top of the condom to provide a space for the semen.
• After ejaculation occurs, and before the penis softens, carefully hold the base of the condom as you pull out the penis to prevent semen from accidently seeping out.
• To discard, roll it into a piece of tissue paper and discard immediately into a waste basket.

Pleasure and Pain
Many guys do not enjoy wearing condoms because of the decrease in sensation and/or pleasure during intercourse. Experimenting with the many different types can be fun and will allow you to find the one that works best for you.

Side Effects
Either partner might experience some irritation caused by an allergy to the latex material. The same goes for spermicides; some people, both male and female, can be sensitive to their contents.