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Sexual Abstinence

What is it?
Sexual abstinence is undoubtedly the most effective method of birth control - choosing to refrain from sexual intercourse will prevent both pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (do remember though that other forms of sexual intimacy such as oral sex can be the source of STD’s). Although sexual abstinence may seem like an impossible feat for some, it is practiced worldwide by many who choose alternate ways to achieve closeness with their partner.

Why choose sexual abstinence?
Humans have the ability to link emotions with sexual behavior, to engage in monogamous relationships, to decide on the number of children they desire, and to opt for the method of birth control that suits their beliefs, values and lifestyle, one of which is sexual abstinence.

Chastity is often a choice related to religious belief. Many sects do not engage in pre-marital sex, and women as well as men ‘save’ themselves for their wedding night. Some find great merit in waiting until vows of commitment are exchanged. Certain religions view any form of birth control, other than sexual abstinence, as sinful.

Sexual abstinence is somewhat liberating as you never have to worry about whether or not the condom will break, or whether or not you forgot to take your contraceptive pill. You are always 100% sure that you are both STD and pregnancy-free.

Why decline sexual abstinence?
Some people would argue that the practice of sexual abstinence before marriage is not a good idea, that a couple should know whether or not they are sexually compatible before they tie the knot. The promise of a lifetime union is an important decision in life - should not all aspects of such a commitment be examined before marriage? Another contemporary belief is that the well-being of our bodies and minds is related to the pleasure of sexual intimacy and intercourse.